Latin Dating Tips
All people are different and chemistry between two people can only be determined when they meet face to face. The telephone can tell you some things but the actual first physical meeting is the real deal. There are general guidelines to keep to but if you find that being too nice or laid back is not working then please change up. Normally we would say do not come on too strong and be conservative but if you find she is bored when you are like that then alter your actions, especially if you like her. Many Latin women are used to the man being the take charge and aggressive type and it is bred into them and something like this can make or break it even if everything else is ok so see how it goes. Use your charisma, be spontaneous and your date will be talking about you night and day till you meet again.
Initial Latina Dating
When dating Latin women from different countries, bear in mind that women from some places like Colombia, Peru and Costa Rica may be a little more conservative compared to ladies from the Dominican Republic, Puerto Rico and Brazil. These women may be more open early on but for the most part all ladies will be a bit shy until she gets to know you better. She expects you to lead and be the boss for the most part. She will expect you to choose the restaurant, movie, activity, etc., especially early on in the relationship. Its like you have to establish your authority and confidence for her. This will make you look strong in her eyes and it is important in the their culture. There is no substitute for it.
For all Latina women their family will always be number one. Some of them have been promised the moon by men in their past and have been disappointed so they know they can only always depend on their families. Lots of men say the same thing about their mothers (as opposed to our wives) as being the only woman we will always be able to trust! If you ever become a part of her family you will instantly be accepted and treated accordingly.
Family members trust each other and when you do not have material things to love, family is that much more important and special. Many rich and somewhat rich people never experience this or could ever understand it. Get in good with her family and the key to her heart will come with it. There are some ladies who will even bring a close family member to your first or second date. Do not look at this any more than that they do things different and if you think about it, its a sweet thing to do and you know that if you two ever have any children they will be showered with family love all their lives. Priceless! It also shows that she is serious about finding a man for marriage.
Latin Dating Tips Outline
- Meet her in a public place
- Tell someone
- Wear proper clothing
- Smile and pay attention to her only
- Exercise caution
Meet Her In A Public Location
Make her feel safe (and yourself) and meet up in an area where there are plenty of other people around. This is a no brainer.
Tell Someone
Tell someone that is reliable about your date especially if its in a country you are not too knowledgable about. Should anything go wrong, you have someone looking for you.
Don’t Over or Under Dress
Do not be a bum but how far you go in dressing up is up to you. If you normally do not dress flashy then please don’t do it for the first date. She may think you dress this way all the time and it would be misleading for better or worse. It could make her think you are rich, a player or materialistic. If this is you then by all means do it.
Keep Safety in Mind
The chances of her trying to set you up somehow is extremely low but do not get in any private vehicles with any ‘friends’ she may ‘happen’ to run into or anything like that. Also give her a little money for car fare if she asks but there should be no significant money given or talked about on this first date or you probably are wasting your time. Use your better instincts and don’t be a sucker. If she asks for money and you say no on this first date then she saved you lots of wasted time that might have been a second date or worse, an artificial relationship. If she is actually a nice person but does not understand that asking for money on a first date is not appropriate then it just was not meant to be. Enjoy yourself but safety and good sense is a priority and hopefully this first date will turn into something wonderful.